Love my job!

facebook status update that sums up my job!


"So I now go by four names at work: Mom in training, Mom, F***ing B****, and Ms. Fisher..... I LOVE my job! It is AMAZING!!!! The other kids make up for the kids who cuss me out! :):


I really love where I work.  Those kids need me, whether they are making it up or they actually do but I feel apart of something bigger than myself and bigger than being a mother, which is all I have wanted to be.  I am making a difference and impact in their lives whether they call me mom, Ms Fisher or Fucking Bitch I know I am making a difference in someones life and that is truly all I have ever wanted to do!!!


I LOVE my job!!!  I get paid to parent!! :)

damn men!

So, though I may come from the east end.....it doesn't mean I am in to all that shit!  I am going to be writing two entires in the next couple minutes so be looking out for the next one if you don't like this rant.  One I am not a chick that likes Xanax.  I am a good girl and just like to go to thug bars because the beers are cheep and my family knows the bar tender!  Second....Just because you say you like to eat pussy doesn't mean that is a good pick up line nor is it a way to pick me up!!!  I went out with my mom on Saint Patty's day and there was this black guys using this pick up line!  Then when he bought us a jello shots we had to show him how to lick around the sides and take it like a man.  He was the pussy that night!!!  Tonight some man thought it was a good wing man strategy to say that he likes to lick it.....ummmmmm that isn't going to work on me and my poka-hot-ass(aka Lauren--We are back bitches!).  We are the cool bitches and nothing those ghetto old frat boys could do to lure us in.....

But I must say boys need to learn their manners.  Though I know I am not going to meet the man of my dreams in the hole in the wall bar...however!  I do not need the pick up lines of do you want a Xanax or I like to eat pussy.  Oh am SO better than that!  I just  am amazed that those are the only men who will approach me.  I know I am intimidating but come on!!  I am not that bad. I am a cute girl who deserves better...so where are those men who are willing to try.  I am WAITING for you!!! :)

Allison's Wedding

What an amazing weekend!!!  It started off Friday with the rehearsal dinner.  It was so awesome hanging with her family. Allison's dad was the funniest.  The first time down the aisle, he kissed her and sat down before the song was finished.  The second time down, he was asked "who give this women to this man?"  he responds, "me".  haha  The third time down the aisle he gets it right and responds "Her mother and I."  Third times a charm.  Love it.

The next day we spent it all getting ready.  Allison had someone come in and do all of our hair.  Though it wasn't exactly what I wanted, I took my teasing brush and bobby pins downstairs and fixed it.  So no harm what so ever.  We helped Allison get into her dress.  She looked beautiful!!!  We went to the park and took lots of pictures.  The Bride and Groom were just adorable!!




Before the wedding commenced, we girls and Shane in the bridal party were worried about the after party in the limo.  We were all under the impression there would be alcohol.  But there wasn't.  However, best man and his wife came through and we toasted to the wedding with Tequila in champagne glasses.  It was perfect!  As a bridal party gift, Allison and Steve got us all converse shoes with our names on the side.  My first pair ever! They were adorable!! Hence the picture to the right.

All in all it was a very successful wedding and I couldn't be happier for one of my best friends!!!  Congratulations Allison and Steve Crosley!!!!

Kettering Backpack Program

As a Kettering Alumni and social work student I can tell you how important this program is for it's community and the kids in it.  Too many children are starving over the weekends due to lack of food.  It is our duty as a community and citizens to take care of those around us.  Especially those innocent children.  Please take this opportunity to vote for the Kettering Backpack Program's video.  The money will be going to a great cause:  Putting food in the bellys of the children who are in need of weekend support.  Did you know studies have shown children perform better in school when they are not hungry?  What could this could do for these children's futures?  It will place food in the stomachs and open their minds to a world of possibilities.  And YOU  can help with just one click.  Please spread the word.

 Please vote and watch video HERE

or you can watch on Youtube HERE

Thank you for your support and help

On a side note, this program hits closer to home than just being an Alumni.  My mother is the CEO and co-founder of this program.  I have watched our family and the teachers and staff of the Kettering School District pour their hearts and financial help into this cause....because it is important.  You can help too, with one click a day. :)

BSB Cruise 2011

The cruise has been announced!!!  I am so freaking excited.  I am disappointed about a couple of the new features they are adding, like a full boat (we thought it was hard to talk to them last year) AND it is only going to be 3 days.  The upside....we are going to the BAHAMAS!!! :)  I have never been there before!!  Plus I get to see all my lovely new friends I met on last years boat!!  Who knew you could make a bunch of new friends over the Backstreet Boys and thanks to Facebook and Twitter you are able to keep in contact with them.  Amazing!  Time to start saving that money because the girls are coming back at the Backstreet Boys.  I don't know if they realize what they are getting themselves into!  Again..... lol

All of us lovely peeps with the one and only Backstreet Boys at the cruise last December 2010 :)

Can't wait to make more memories!!! 

New Job

So.  Today was the first day of my new job!!  I had so much fun!  I can't wait to be able to be on the floor by myself soon.  The one thing I have to learn is how to balance a time to eat between things so I am not Hungary because I have haven't ate all day!!  :)

So excited to see where these experiences in life are going to lead me :)

Wedding Season is Beginning!

It's Wedding season!!!!! :) On top of the birthday celebrations this weekend, I helped my friend Allison celebrate her bachlorette party. We had so much fun. It started with dinner at Brio in Newport KY and then moved to Gangsters piano bar. It was so relaxed and fun. The piano players were AWESOME! They were so talented. Afterwards we went back out to this place called Arnie's. It was fun and different for sure but it was fun to hang out with my girls. I have missed them so much! Next weekend is the wedding. So there will for sure be more updates on it. Considering I am walking down the aisle with the shortest guy who happens to be Puerto Rican. And I am the whitest girl ever! (All because the bride thought it would be funny) Oh Allison!! :)

The Bride and the Bridesmaids :)

Shannon, Allison, Me and Kayla

Birthday Fun!

Sooooo yesterday was my BIRTHDAY!!!! :) I am now 23. We had so much fun last night. I am so blessed with the number of facebook comments, countless texts and phone calls. I love my friends and family! They mean everything to me!! I hope everyone has an awesome weekend!!! :)

I had an AMAZING night with my friends and my sister! We started off doing a charity benefit wine tasting for Juvenile Diabetes then went to the Liquid Room with my mom. We played beer pong and took shots with the bar tender. After that we finished the evening at the Bistro in Franklin with Danielle, Tiffany, Sarah, Karen and Danielle's friend (I forget his name). It was so much fun. We met some interesting people and had lots of drinks bought for us!! To finish the evening we went to Awful Waffle and ate our hearts out. Perfect night, I couldn't have asked for anything better.

Thanks to those who helped me celebrate!!! :)

Fisher Family Moment

So last weekend our sewage drain backed up throughout our basement. There was shit everywhere! Literally. So, mom comes in the kitchen just now and says "oh lord it smells horrible in here. We need to check the basement now."

My dad turns around, says "oh I smell it. I will go down there."

I come out to see whats going on and ask if my dad farted.

He yells from the basement, "oh yeah thats right, I did."

hahahahahahah I love my family. Only we would have these moments.

Nichole Nordeman - Legacy

bad news from the doc

I guess whenever someone gets bad medical news, it all starts off with a routine visit.

Today my doctor told me I may have PCOD. She explained that it was the reason for my weight gain, stomach pain and I guess I have a hump on my back (who knew). I didn't fully understand but she said more tests are needing to be ran, so I am doing them tomorrow. I didn't think it was a big deal. That was until I looked some things up on the internet.

It seams that this syndrome or disease in some cases, is because my body is not ovulating. It is the number one reason females my age are infertile. My whole world just came crashing down in 1 statement. My dream in life is to be a mom. What am I going to do if I can't have kids. My worst fears are coming true and I am officially freaking out. I know that I am not diagnosed officially with it and I have to wait for the test results, but when my doctor tells me she is 80% sure thats what it is, makes me panic.

What am I going to do? I feel that my purpose for life will be gone if I have can't have kids. I know I can adopt and I have always wanted to do that, but what about having one of my own with the man I love. What then?

I just don't know anymore. I will keep you posted about the whole situation. It just sucks.

Greek

I know 2 post in one day, shit just got real.

Just watched the series final of one of my favorite shows and I can't stop crying. 4 years ago I moved into the Kappa Delta house. About that time the show Greek was beginning. This was awesome because it made fun of all the stereotypes but also joked about the realities of being in the Greek system (no matter what some Greeks will say, stereotypes came from some truth). For every episode there would be 15 of us girls and sometimes Fraternity guys would come over and watch it with us. It was the best time I had living in the house.

So when I moved out of the house and back into my parents home, I would watch the show and think about all those fun times we had. Today was the finale of the show and I feel like I just lost a part of my past. Though it was show, it held memories that can only happen once in your life. I won't ever be sitting in a Sorority house watching a sitcom ever again. I have grown up. I guess that is what the end of the show was about. Growing up and learning to move on past the Greek life.

Tomorrow will be the first day of many where that memory will begin to fade. Though I am horribly

sad that those days are gone, I am happy about what those memories taught me about the future. Sisterhood and brotherhood will always be a part of my life. Whether I am 90 years old at founders day looking at some sassy 18 year olds or begging my daughter to pledge KD, Kappa Delta will forever be in my heart long after the show has ended.

Help Change someones life

So yesterday I was driving through Norwood in Cincinnati on my way back up to Dayton. As I was sitting at a stop light I noticed a man sitting at the bus stop. Next to him was a shopping bag. He was taking off the tags of a pair of socks and double layering them on top on the ones he already had one. The weather had taken a turn for the cold during the evening hours. While I was sitting there I began to cry and had to look away. I don't know his story. He could have been just walking around and gotten cold, but was on his way to his warm house. Or, he could be a homeless man spending his last dollar to get a pair of socks to keep warm through the night.

I am a volunteer at a place called the Good Neighbor House. At this non profit organization we give clothing to those who need it. You can be homeless or housed. We give food and household items to those who are housed and refer the homeless to places that will feed them warm meals. After witnessing the situation I did last night it made me very proud to be volunteering in an organization that clothes the needy. I encourage anyone who is reading this to please reach out to those organizations in your community who help those men, women and children who need clothing throughout the year. I also encourage you to speak out and donate to these causes. You can make a difference in someones life, with a little effort.

For more information about the organization in which I volunteer for in Dayton, please visit:

http://www.goodneighborhouse.org/

Or your please visit your local United Way: http://liveunited.org/

So much has happened this year! It has flown by and I haven't stayed on my plan of life for the year! So much for new years resolutions! lol

Well lets start off with the resolutions. I have gained 5 lbs and I have the title, cover page and dedication done for the book. I am supposed to be 10 lbs lighter and at least 25 pages into the book. Not good. Also per the last post, Grandma Sue passed away February 12 at 1:30 in the morning. She was surrounded by her family as she took her last breaths. It has been hard and I haven't really had a chance to grieve but things will get better. She is finally with the love of her life. She waited 12 years to meet up with him. We actually found a poem she wrote to him right after his death. It was amazing because it showed their love. She put up with a LOT of his crap but she still loved him. Their love and relationship is true love. Now she rests in peace next to him.

The year has been interesting to say the least. My classes are actually going GREAT! I might get the good student discount on my insurance! lol Which is such a change because I don't really like it. I have spent the last couple months working/Interning at Wood Glen Alzheimer's Community shadowing a social worker. I has been an amazing experience getting to know the profession, I can't wait to have my "real" job and do this all the time. However, speaking of jobs, I just got one!!!! So excited! I am going to be working with Greene County Children's Services. Hopefully this will serve as a stepping stone for future employment! It was great timing because I had just finished my internship when they called.

Things are just looking up now. Though it sucks that my grandmother is gone, that is a weight off my shoulders. She isn't suffering anymore and I am not constantly worrying about her. I would rather have her here healthy but I know that just can't happen. I have a job! Doing what my degree is going to be in and I watch two beautiful 5 month old twins in the mornings. It is a great day when it starts off with a baby smiling at me. I couldn't has for a better thing!

Though I am still in financial ruin, I am looking up. With this job, I will be able to pay back my friend for our concert tickets, I will be able to pay more on my credit card and HOPEFULLY I will be able to give some money to my parents and it will get them off my back, at least for a little while. Plus I need to start saving for the next cruise that they are supposedly going to announce soon. So this could suck! But I think I can do it. No more shoes, clothes, purses or eating out. I think I can do it.....maybe :)

I think that is all for now! Hopefully catch up again soon!